brighton pride 09

Saturday, August 1st, 2009

My tenth Brighton Pride today. The forecast was light rain but we decided to head down there anyway: me, Matt, Phil and Ivo. We marched for a bit, we headed into Preston Park, it rained for a bit, then stopped, then around 4pm or so the heavens opened and just kept going. The Gay Nation got wetter and wetter, and eventually we realised it was never going to stop so we fled Brighton clutching our sopping feather boas, mascara running down our upturned faces, wringing out our dripping day glo jackets on the train. Not before we’d seen Jodie and Dan H, had a good chat with Dan M and Paul, bumped into Adrian, huddled under an umbrella with David F, and picked up Sean, who ranted about the weather all the way back to London.

It’s possible to stand proud under a mild or even medium quantity of rain, but that kind of onslaught inevitably wears you down in the end. Mind you, we heard there were still quite a few people in Preston Park by 8pm. Let’s hope for more sun next year!

We got back to the flat, ordered an Indian takeaway, and watched Afghan Idol, an intriguing documentary about the equivalent of Pop Idol in Afghanistan, which took to the airways in the Noughties with a Western style format that at times challenged and shocked this conservative nation but was also avidly watched by a massive proportion of the population. I recommend it.

cocks and frocks

Wednesday, November 19th, 2008


Met up with Charlotte and Matt in the Village, followed by Friendly Society and a late night tapas at Cafe Espana. We haven’t been in a gay bar for so long, it was intriguing. I may have to stage a second coming out and break my long seclusion from the scene. After all, the 1980s recession created much of the London gay scene, but the coming recession could break it. We need to support them and buy their crap lager and double G&Ts. Still, it’s all about the venue, not the drinks. The pumping conversation drowning pop music! The careful glances and appraising nods! The muscular bar staff in sleeveless vests! My weekly copy of QX magazine! Oh Soho, I shall not desert thee.

intense public moments

Sunday, June 29th, 2008

Back from Lopa’s 30th birthday bash in Soho this evening, we rounded the corner on Charlton Kings Road near our flat and came across two peroxide blonde lesbians , having a close face to face 1.30am intense discussion moment while another woman sat in a car nearby watching them. I bet they have some kind of very complicated three way relationship going on.

Matt said “do they have to do all that in public?” but I’m all for it, myself.